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The Truth about Santa

Someone sent me this story about Santa.  I loved it so much I thought I would share it here.  It’s a little long but a great story about the spirit of Christmas.

I remember my first Christmas adventure with Grandma. I was just a kid. I remember tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the day my big sister dropped the bomb: “There is no Santa Claus,” she jeered. “Even dummies know that!”  My Grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been. I fled to her that day because I knew she would be straight with me. I knew Grandma always told the truth, and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with one of her “world-famous” cinnamon buns. I knew they were world-famous, because Grandma said so. It had to be true. Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm. Between bites, I told her everything. She was ready for me. “No Santa Claus?” She snorted… “Ridiculous! Don’t believe it. That rumor has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad!!

Now, put on your coat, and let’s go.” “Go? Go where, Grandma?” I asked. I hadn’t even finished my second world-famous cinnamon bun. “Where” turned out to be Kerby’s General Store, the one store in town that had a little bit of just about everything. As we walked through its doors, Grandma handed me ten dollars. That was a bundle in those days. “Take this money,” she said, “and buy something for someone who needs it. I’ll wait for you in the car. “Then  she turned and walked out of Kerby’s. I was only eight years old. I’d often gone shopping with my mother, butnever  had I shopped for anything all by myself. The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to finish their Christmas shopping. For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what to buy, and who on earth to buy it for.
I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school, and the people who went to my church.

I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of Bobby Decker. He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock’s grade-two class. Bobby Decker didn’t have a coat. I knew that because he never went out to recess during the winter. His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that he had a cough, but all we kids knew that Bobby Decker didn’t have a cough; he didn’t have a good coat. I fingered the  ten-dollar bill with growing excitement. I would buy Bobby Decker a coat! I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it. It looked real warm, and he would like that. “Is this a Christmas present for someone?” the lady behind the counter asked kindly, as I laid my ten dollars down. “Yes, ma’am,” I replied shyly. “It’s for Bobby.” The nice lady smiled at me, as I told her about how Bobby really needed a good winter coat. I didn’t get any change, but she put the coat in a bag, smiled again, and wished me a Merry Christmas.

That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat (a little tag fell out of the coat, and Grandma tucked it in her Bible)in Christmas paper and ribbons and wrote, “To Bobby, From Santa Claus” on it. Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy. Then she drove me over to Bobby Decker’s house, explaining as we went that I was now and forever officially, one of Santa’s helpers. Grandma parked down the street from Bobby’s house, and she and I crept noiselessly and hid in the bushes by his front walk. Then Grandma gave me a nudge. “All right, Santa Claus,” she whispered, “get going.” I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step, pounded his door and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma. Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open. Finally it did, and there stood Bobby. Fifty years haven’t dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my Grandma, in Bobby Decker’s bushes. That night, I realized that those awful rumors about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were: ridiculous. Santa was alive and well, and we were on his team. I still have the Bible, with the coat tag tucked inside: $19.95.

Happy Holidays and don’t let the stress of all the shopping take away from the meaning of this special time of the year!

PerryWinkles Kids

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Roll, Baby, Roll!

I’ve been humoured by the blob quality of newborn babies.  They just get moved around and plopped down, picked up, changed, bathed, fed.  Everything happens to them, they can’t actually consciously move.  This is why I was so impressed with the milestone that Clara reached two weeks ago when she rolled over on her tummy.  It took her a number of tries and a lot of kicking and screaming and persistence but she finally achieved it.  This felt like a huge milestone because it was probably her first conscious act.  Her first step to being mobile and to independence. 

I quickly also found what this milestone means for my free time.   While Clara is having a ball rolling on her tummy any chance she gets, she doens’t actually like staying on her tummy (in spite of the daily tummy time workouts!).  This means that as soon as she has turned over she will cry and scream for someone to turn her back on her back. 

I was surprised initially that babies would learn to go back-to-tummy first and then get melon.jpgstuck there for a few weeks when they learn the reverse motion, until I learned that babies’ heads make up a quarter of the proportion of their bodies!  Now I have to laugh every time I look at a baby because I am so conscious of the huge melons they have to lug around all day.  Imagine how different we would look if we kept those proportions as grown-ups.  No wonder the poor things are so exhausted at the end of every day, from all the effort it takes just to hold their heads in place!

PerryWinkles Kids

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Breastfeeding on the Go

Preparing to travel with a baby for the first time is no easy feat.  Yet another challenge of holiday travel is figuring out how to breastfeed while on the go.  One obvious difficulty is finding a place that is quiet and somewhat private.  You can take the time to find these places when you’re out and about with no agenda but what happens when you’re in an airport waiting lounge or in a plane, for example, and your baby needs to eat NOW!  You’re pretty much bound to your seat or not wanting to stray too far if you’re waiting to board a plane.  Rest assured that you can still breastfeed comfortably in these situations. 

Bebe au Lait makes handy ‘hooter hiders’ (also known as nursing covers) so you can take bebeaulait.jpgyour time preparing and latching your baby for feeding without compromising your modesty.  There is nothing worse than trying to feed in public while being self-conscious about showing some skin or some nipple!  The stress is passed down to your baby and neither you nor her are comfortable.  Bebe au Lait uses beautiful fabrics and a simple design that allows you to see your baby and the baby to see you. Their ‘hooter hiders’ are like oversized canvas bags where the handle goes around your neck.  They are a bit large and not exactly discrete but they are definitely a convenient, colourful way to get privacy.

The next challenge - how to hold your baby for the duration of the feed when you’re not at the comfort of your home with your favourite breastfeeding pillow.  My Brest Friend makes a perfect travel pillow that inflates into a sturdy pillow that doesn’t slide around and is light-weight and easy to pack to take along on trips.  You don’t need to try to support your baby with your jacket or be all hunched over when feeding on planes, restaurants, parks or when traveling.  Although I don’t see myself pulling out my breastfeeding pillow at a restaurant, I think it’s a great solution to the travel dilemma. 

Bon app, les bèbès!  Luckily baby’s meals don’t have to be compromised when we’re on the go.

PerryWinkles Kids - Fine Children’s Clothing 

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Favorite Infant Toys

As we decide how to spend our time with our new infants we are bombarded with toys to choose from. The choice is yours to make as to which one will get your baby’s attention and hold it for more than ten seconds, which one will make her smarter, which one will develop her eye coordination, or work on her grasp, will this one make her dumber?!, could this one be toxic?! We know that novelty is good for a baby’s development but what is too much? You wouldn’t want to spoil your baby!

As a first time mom you pay so much attention to your baby’s every tiny reaction and expression with a new toy trying to figure out if this one passes the test. (I imagine the second or third time around you either know it instinctively or realize that none of this really matters!)  Below are some of my favorite toys from our collection, mainly based on how engaged Clara seems with them and how long that lasts.

frog.jpg1. Haba Wooden Frog. Haba is a German company that makes beautiful wooden toys of non-toxic materials as well as some soft toys. They make clutching toys for infants that are perfect for when they are learning to grasp. The frog has dangly arms with pieces of wood at the ends that make it easy to grab on to and inevitably end in the baby’s mouth. These toys aren’t exactly in the ‘bargain’ category but are worth the money. (Note on Safety: while their wooden toys and parts are made in Germany, their soft toys are made in China. These, however, are made under German supervision to comply with German safety standards.)

sophie.jpg2. Sophie la Giraffe.   Made by Vulli, a French toy company, Sophie has been around for 40 years.  This sweet-looking giraffe toy is made of natural rubber and food paint, and is easy to grab, as well as, apparently, fascinating to chew on!  Clara does seem to enjoy mowing down on Sophie’s head, legs and neck!

3. Kathe Kruse Organic Gugguli Girl Doll.  This was a gift from friends in Germany and I’mDSC_6352.JPG so glad they introduced us to this toy company.  Kathe Kruse is a 100-year old German toy company that hand-makes these cuddly dolls that are safe for children.  I don’t know about the educational benefits of this doll but it is the most adorable, soft little thing and it keeps Clara company in her crib; plus it makes for great photo opps!

4. Mr. Lion.  It’s hard to escape Lamaze toys when you have a baby.  And after seeing how my baby loves grabbing, punching and chewing on her Lamaze Lion I now understand why.  You can almost see their brains exploding with sensory stimulation from the colours, textures and sounds in these soft toys.  

5. Fuzzy Bee and Friends.  Priddy Books makes wonderful cloth books for infants.  Clara can’t get enough of the sounds and feels of her new friends as we turn the pages.  A great way to introduce them to books and reading.

6. Running water.  Sometimes instead of relying on toys and songs for entertainment we walk around the house exploring new textures.  One of her favourite things is the feeling of warm water running down her feet and hands.  This one ranks high in the budget category!  Don’t forget to explore every-day items around your house.  We take them for granted but for the newly-arrived everything is a novelty! 

PerryWinkles Kids

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